Constellation with Horses
Constellation with Horses
Constellation with Horses: A 2½-Day Embodied Healing Retreat
For devoted women who long to be felt, not fixed
Step into an intimate container where trauma dissolves at its roots
Let your nervous system find a new equilibrium.
Let yourself reclaim a wholeness that’s always been yours.
Explore our silent paddock mornings, group constellations with a herd of attuned horses, and guided integration practices, over 2 1⁄2 days at the Healing You Sanctuary near Spokane, WA.
Invitation to Remember Your Wholeness
Healing You Sanctuary, Spokane, WA
Are you longing to reconnect with your true self?
What if the answers you seek aren’t found in lists or lectures, but in the gentle wisdom of a horse’s gaze?
Join an intimate circle of just 6 women for 2½ days of embodied constellation work.
Uncover hidden family patterns, reclaim your power, and heal deep emotional wounds held tenderly by the herd and guided by compassionate facilitation.
Reserve your place and step back into the wholeness that’s always been yours.
The Hidden Cost of Staying in Survival Mode
When survival becomes the default, true living slips away
Even when life looks “fine” on the surface, your body tells a different story.
Chronic nervous system dysregulation, your internal alarm constantly primed, impacts everything from digestion to decision-making.
You may:
- Keep showing up strong while secretly feeling like you’re unraveling inside.
- Crave rest and silence, yet never seem to find the space you need.
- Repeat emotional loops, circling familiar pain points despite all your efforts.
- Feel stuck between the person you were and the one you’re becoming.
- Long for a deep connection, but grow tired of holding everything together alone.
OR
Reach out to me directly at gloria@glorialybecker.com
Why Horses & Constellation Work?
A relational field where presence, not performance, prompts true healing
Horses don’t ask for your story; they mirror the subtle rhythms of your nervous system. They provide a clear reflection of what your mind can’t name and welcome parts of you that have long been braced against pain.
One moment, a horse stands quietly beside you until your breath deepens; the next, it gently invites you to notice where you’ve overridden your truth.
When I first sat in the saddle of my horse Saphira, I didn’t need words, just to feel her attunement. In her stillness, I rediscovered an inner quiet I hadn’t known I’d lost, and that reorientation became my life’s work. Now, for over 20 years, I’ve held this space so other women can remember their innate safety and reclaim the wholeness that was never lost.
Who is this retreat
for?
For women ready to meet themselves in truth, stillness, and sensation
This intimate 2½-day experience isn’t designed for quick fixes or busy agendas. It’s a tender invitation for women who have already done the inner work but haven’t yet felt it land. You’ll step into a space where every part of you is welcome.
✓ No performance required
✓ Discover what unfolds when your nervous system finally feels safe enough to open.
You’ll resonate deeply if you:
- Notice you’re self-aware yet still replay old emotional cycles
- Feel disconnected from your body, your voice, or your sense of belonging
- Crave deep presence, with yourself, others, and the earth beneath you
- Want to receive without having to explain or perform
- Long to be held in sacred space where no part of you is “too much”
What You’ll Experience
from the Retreat?
A Homecoming Beyond
Words
Step into a living field of safety, held by horses, nature, and a small sister-circle, where real healing takes root in your body. Over 2½ transformative days, you will:
- Engage in deep constellation work with the herd
- Begin each morning in silent paddock time, tuning into your inner field
- Participate in spacious group constellations, where core patterns arise and shift in real-time.
- Receive personal integration support so insights land fully
- Experience a profound nervous system reset in a container where nothing is demanded
What to Expect at the Retreat?
Since 2002, this has been quietly spreading, and we’ve made it better every time!
The Constellation with Horses Retreat unfolds over 2½ days at the peaceful Healing You Sanctuary in Spokane, Washington (USA). You’ll stay overnight near the constellation site, no long commute, no distractions.
At an investment of just $1,250 USD, you’ll experience a deeply intimate, trauma-informed retreat.
The Constellation with Horses Retreat unfolds over 2½ days at the peaceful Healing You Sanctuary in Spokane, Washington (USA). You’ll stay overnight near the constellation site, no long commute, no distractions.
At an investment of just $1,250 USD, you’ll experience a deeply intimate, trauma-informed retreat.
✓ 2½ Days of Equine-Guided Constellation Work
This includes both group and individual experiences with the herd, somatic, systemic, and spiritually attuned.
✓ A Small Circle of Just 6 Women
No big groups. No performances. Just presence, safety, and depth.
✓ Somatic Mornings + Restorative Space
Each day begins in silence with the herd. You’ll have time to drop in, reflect, and regulate.
✓ Guided Integration + Personal Support
You won’t be left hanging. Everything that arises will be gently held and integrated in-session and after.
✓ Warm Tea, Cozy Spaces, and Time to Just Be
This is nervous system medicine, not hustle culture in a prettier package.
"If your body is saying yes, trust it.
Not because you’re doing more…
…but because you’re finally letting yourself be more deeply held.
This is where coping strategies get to lay down their armor.
Where “resilient” isn’t a badge, just an old story you no longer need."
Whenever uncertainty arises or your bravery feels faint, know that you’re not alone on this path.
I’m here to hold space for your questions, your worries, and your moments of triumph. Simply reach out at
gloria@glorialybecker.com
Together, we’ll shine light on your next steps and nurture your growth with gentle compassion.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. I’ve done a lot of inner work already. How is this different?
That’s exactly why this space was created. Many of the women who come to this retreat are self-aware, seasoned on their healing path, but something still hasn’t landed. This work isn’t another layer of insight to stack on top. It’s a return to your body’s knowing, held by horses who don’t need a story or explanation. They respond to what’s true beneath the words. That’s where real shifts happen.
2. What if I’ve never worked with horses before, or feel nervous around them?
You don’t need horse experience to receive this work. The herd is attuned, gentle, and deeply respectful. And I’m here with you every step of the way. Even if there’s a little fear, that too is welcome; it often opens the door to the exact healing your system is ready for. Many women find that their connection to the horses becomes one of the most powerful parts of the experience.
3. What actually happens during the retreat?
Each day unfolds slowly, intentionally. We begin with silent paddock time to arrive in our own field. From there, we move into constellation sessions—both group and individual—where the horses mirror the patterns your body holds. There’s time for guided integration, for tea, for stillness. There’s no rush here. Just space to drop in and let your nervous system exhale.
4. Why are there only six women in each retreat?
Healing doesn’t happen in crowded rooms. It happens when you feel safe, seen, and spacious. Limiting this retreat to six women allows every participant to receive focused attention, meaningful time in the field, and the depth of connection that’s only possible in intimate circles. You won’t be a face in the crowd. You’ll be held, just as you are.
5. What is constellation work, and how do horses fit into it?
Systemic constellation work is a powerful process that reveals hidden dynamics within your family or life system. When guided in the presence of horses, the field becomes even more embodied and alive. The horses move with instinctual clarity, often shifting energy that words cannot. They serve as co-facilitators, offering reflections, boundaries, and healing presence without an agenda.
6. I feel like I’m always in survival mode. Will this help?
Yes. This retreat is a space where your body can finally stop bracing. If you’re constantly alert, doing, and managing, your system needs a safe reset. Through somatic presence, deep witnessing, and the calm attunement of horses, you’ll begin to rewire your nervous system from survival to restoration. You don’t have to keep carrying it all alone.
7. What’s included in the $1,250 investment?
Your investment includes 2½ days of live facilitation, group and individual constellation work with the herd, daily paddock time, warm tea and nourishing spaces, guided integration, and continued support throughout the retreat. Meals are included. This is a premium experience with lots of extras to enjoy. Lodging is the only thing not included. Payment plans are available because I believe this work should be accessible when your heart says yes.
8. What if something big comes up during the retreat—will I be supported?
Absolutely. This is a trauma-informed space. Everything that arises is held gently and without rush. You’ll never be left to navigate something alone. I’m right there with you, and so is the circle. The rhythm of the retreat makes space for deep emotion, integration, and reorientation. You’ll leave not just with insight, but with support, embodiment, and real movement forward.
9. How do I know if now is the right time?
If your body leaned in while reading this… if something inside you softened or stirred… then it may be time. You don’t need to be “ready” in the way the world defines it. You only need a whisper of willingness. If you’re unsure, book a free discovery call or email me at gloria@glorialybecker.com. I’ll meet you exactly where you are.
Here are what some of my clients report:
“I value heartfelt relationships of trust, and I have been noticing more around who I have been manifesting into my life.”
“There are some who have been in my life and I feel a sense of kickback because I am not hiding anymore and I am valuing myself and who l have come here to be. I am not taking energy that does not feel congruent or false. I do have some people in my life who do make projections onto me that are not true, and I am coming to a place where I am letting them make a decision on whether or not they want to continue to be in my life. “
— Ruth Crea, course participant
“ It's been so helpful working together, and a joy as well."
“I have learnt a great deal about the practice and the impact of choices, and it’s potential for healing and restructuring our neurological “underpinnings”. Receiving your skillful and insightful processes has brought shifts around a number of issues I brought to the program. I’ve taken in the reminder to “not make yourself wrong” and am working steadily with offering myself practical ways to embody greater kindness for my inner experience which opens a doorway to wholeness and freedom. I’ve so enjoyed connecting with the others in the group.”
— Ruth Emsley, Oxford, UK
“Through Gloria's course, I discovered a whole new way of existing in the world.”
“I signed up for Gloria’s course so I can learn from her wisdom and experience. It also provides me with the opportunity to put into practice tools that will support my personal decision making. I find it supportive to be in community and hear others on their journey, having accompaniment while working through old patterns and beliefs and getting to share celebrations when one can see the old patterns being replaced by new empowering choices!”